Some of my thoughts these days:
People always say living together with in-laws is like courting your own troubles. I have heard from male colleagues who have moved out because their wife and their mother are very sensitive people and they are sandwiched in-between. So life was a misery and hence shift out. stuff like that...
For me, I feel fortunate to still be able to say that I'm happily living under the same roof with my in-laws. Sometimes, misunderstandings occur as that is unavoidable in life. So trying to understand the other party is very important. Just don't take others' words too hard, I think. The husband plays an important role actually.
My conclusion: Living together with no matter who is never easy. We need to understand one another. It's like even living alone with your spouse, you also have disagreements right? Of course, the confrontation method is different.
Another thing I thought of today: When being out with hubby, never take the wheels when he is in a bad mood. He's in an extremely sian mood today(due to work) while we drove around looking at furniture. I told myself NOT TO volunteer to drive as he might get pissed off by my driving skills at times. Good Move!
P/S: I don't think my driving skills very bad but when one is in a foul mood, one gets irritated easily.
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