Married life.... it's been half a year since. Or rather just. Well, most of the time we are in the lovey dovey stage. This weekend did strike a few bouts of unhappiness. Sometimes you are mad at me. Or it was me mad at you. Or some miscommunication. Bottomline was that we wanted the best for each other.
But so much within these 3 days, i felt it's abit too much lah.
I think the most important thing after every argument or disagreement is that you still love your other half deep inside. Cos sometimes you get so f*&^king mad at the other person that you cannot think straight. Like what on earth is he trying to do? Then I start wondering whether he still loves me. Of course I'm too mad to ask.
But on the other hand, having small disagreement is good. If not, life will be too boring right? Besides, it makes you understand each other better.
My thoughts after this weekend is that communication between a couple is very important. It's best to clarify things at that point in time. Sometimes I didn't and I think too hard about it afterwards. Realised this is not good as the thoughts kept spinning in my head and I will be looking for the right moment to say it to you. I should change this. Cos finding the perfect moment is hard. Sometimes there's simply no perfect moment.
This morning, Allan said," I think you are having PMS."
"Why do you say so?" I asked with curiousity.
"You have no sense of humour." he replied.
"Oh... Erm, what did you say just now?" I asked. Apparently, I didn't hear what he mention. that's why i didn't laugh/giggle at all.
Perhaps I was thinking about the issue which I didn't confront last night. ~
p/s: just gorged on a lot of food after my trip back from the foot reflexology. think it's the PMS charging at me. Allan mentioned it might be due to the foot massage that caused me to be so hungry. argh. talk about dieting?
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