Cooling down period.

My beau is so sweet today. Knowing that I am still abit upset, he suggested us meeting tonight at Orchard for dinner and to spend time together. It was like as if we are dating... and then sent me home. Just like when we were still in courtship. We haven't went to town on a wkday(except friday) for a loooong time. Feels sweet deep down my heart. *grins*

Has talked to Mich today and she mentioned maybe I should put in extra effort to improve my image in my MIL's heart since she thinks so lowly of me. But frankly speaking, what shld I do? I am already helping to clear and wipe tables after breakfast? i also cannot work like a maid there right? F&*% it. Think the skills of "pao-ing" people is extremely important if you want to succeed in life.

Went to internet and see if there is any tips on improving relationships with Mother-in-law although i know it's abit pointless. The image of me is already indented in her heart. But perhaps there might be some tips that I can pick up.

http://www.ultimatewedding.com/articles/get.php?action=getarticle&articleid=654
=> Mayb buy flowers for her during her birthday or mother's day. but will she like the flowers? Hmm... better consult darling. But this approach abit too ang-moh style, might not be applicable.

www.familydynamics.net/insandoutsoflifewithinlaws.htm
=> the middle-man tactic is very true. something that have told darling b4.

I don't even tell my family about what has happened cos I know they sure heartache to see their daughter being hurt. My family thinks that my MIL likes me alot cos that's what I told them usually. My mum will advise me to treat my MIL with respect since she adores and treats me well. Maybe one day when they happen to ask again, I will let them know cos I don't wanna lie. They got to at least know the truth how she perceives me. I don't feel like lying to them. Can't do that to my own parents. But I don't want them to worry about this also. Dilemma. Think I will say the truth.

Maybe must re-think the way I treat his family members. Try to be more proactive? Although I know the JHL sure give me the stuck-up attitude. She treats me as transparent. hmm... something to think and ponder about.

But don't think should go hubby's place so often. Sometimes it's good to listen to parents' advise but me being the stubborn kind, always don't listen. Haiz.

At the very least, I have got a good hubby who adores and support me! That's the most important! Muack, love you dear...

p.s: I may sound very grouchy but it's just to let off steam. that's all.