Wedding Preparations

Finally, I have the time and patience to sit down and ponder about the process of getting married.

There are so many parties involved in marriage preparations so it's not that easy, especially during the initial stage. There's us, the couple, my parents, my parent-in-laws.

Initial part was abit tough. But I told myself to delegate, delegate, delegate. So, those customary stuff, I leave it to my MIL and mum. But there would be minor conflicts here and there. So I have to play the role of middle-woman. As for the two of us, there were some conflicts during the inital part too. And I start to realise why some people say, some couple break-up during wedding preparations. There are so many decisions to be made during this period. So listening, understanding and compromising is Very Important.

As things move along, we start to get the hang of communicating about different expectations and coming to a consensus after discussion. It's amazing that such a process actually brings us closer. For me, I start to take each obstacle as a task. And we will discuss about it, reason it out with one another and come to a conclusion which we felt would be the best option for us. There's a sense of achievement as a couplehood. It's all about teamwork, isn't it? We each play the leader role at certain point and tell the other party what are the roles & expectations.

Felt more and more in love as we go along. Although I feel that he is less kan chiong. He doesn't even realise next week is our Guo Da Li. Faintz!!!* Someone once told me, during wedding preparations, the wife just need to delegate tasks to the husbands and he will complete it. Haha... Quite true!

I will miss all these wedding preparations after it's over. We will then move on to the next chapter of our lives. Where we are staying together and truly as Husband & Wife.